"Lord, that I may receive my sight." Luke 18:41
What is the thing that not only disturbs you but makes you a disturbance? It is always some thing you cannot
Watch how we limit the Lord by remembering what we have allowed Him to do for us in the past: I always failed there, and I always shall; consequently we do not ask for what we want. "It is ridiculous to ask God to do this." If it is an impossibility, it is the thing we have to ask. If it is not an impossible thing, it is not a real disturbance. God will do the absolutely impossible.
This man received his sight. The most impossible thing to you is that you should be so identified with the Lord that there is nothing of the old life left. He will do it if you ask Him. But you have to come to the place where you believe Him to be Almighty. Faith is not in what Jesus says but in Himself; if we only look at what He says we shall never believe. When once we see Jesus, He does the impossible thing as naturally as breathing. Our agony comes through the wilful stupidity of our own heart. We won't believe, we won't cut the shore line, we prefer to worry on.
Today was the first time that I had this thought... Ever since Gavyn got sick and was in the hospital, and ever since we realized Nevin was not going to be able to talk like a typical kid, I have had nights where I can not sleep. I lie awake in bed and stare out the window into the blackness. I cry, I sob, I pray, I beg. I want God to do a miracle and heal them. To take away Gavyn's hydrocephalus. To strength and heal his legs so he can run and play. For both of them to grow. For Nevin's mouth to "be opened" and for speech to spill out that is intelligible. These nights have become less frequent but I felt they would always be there. Until this morning after I read that.
"When Jesus asks us what we want Him to do for us in regard to the incredible thing with which we are faced, remember that He does not work in common-sense ways, but in supernatural ways."
What if the "incredible" thing that I need to ask God for is not healing for my kids but healing for me. To be free from the immense amount of shame and guilt I have. To not blame myself for Gavyn getting sick. To not feel guilt over Nevin being diagnosed at 3yrs and 5yrs old with his conditions. I can not imagine a life feeling free from that. I have had two of the boys doctors tell me to not feel this way. Dr. Werner from the PICU who told us Gavyn had hydrocephalus and Dr. Braddock our genetics doctor. Dr.Werner was an amazing doctor who told me some very powerful things that I still think on. Dr. Braddock completely caught me off guard on Tuesday when he brought up the guilt thing. He joked it was a mom gene that you can't get rid of but that I need to stop beating myself up. That none of this was my fault. I didn't know how to respond but I have been thinking about it. Today reading this gave me new insight. Healing. God is in the business of healing, I have seen it so much in our lives. Is it my turn now? Perhaps. I am not sure how to ask though....